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Coming up on 14 years of marriage? That’s a big deal! After more than a decade of supporting your partner, nurturing your relationship, and having plenty of fun along the way, marking the occasion with a beautiful gift is certainly appropriate. It’s time to celebrate!
The traditional gift for celebrating 14 years after you said “I do” is ivory, but you’ll want to stray from the real deal made from elephant tusk. However, there are plenty of symbolic ivory items or experiences that make a great alternative in its place. And as for the modern gift? It's gold, a precious metal that represents prosperity and long-lasting commitment. You can even combine both traditional and modern gifts into one present—sparkly gold and sophisticated ivory hues make for a perfect marriage. However, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to an anniversary gift, so you don't have to stick to these themes if there's something special you think your partner will love.
Sifting through the abundance of gift options online can be a tedious challenge, so we're here to help. We've researched and narrowed down the best 14th-anniversary gift options available. We made our final selection based on thoughtfulness, price point, and overall quality. From handmade jewelry to home decor pieces and beautiful fragrances, we've got you covered for this special celebration.
Read on for the 14 best 14th-anniversary gifts.
For At-Home Date Nights
West Elm Cotton Knit Throw
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West Elm
Snuggle up with your favorite person using this special gift. You can cozy up at home together for a movie night with snacks and a comfy blanket like this one from West Elm. This cotton knit throw is ultra-soft and comes in ivory white to fit the traditional theme—or you can select from eight other colors to match your decor.
Most Unique
Wulf Creek Designs Elephant Couple Wine Glasses
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Etsy
While real ivory is out of the question, you can still celebrate with adorable elephants to match the theme. These elephant couple wine glasses can be personalized with names or a phrase and are as sweet as can be. Add them to a gift bag with a bottle of wine and raise a glass together to celebrate your special day.
Best Personalized Gift
Williams Sonoma Monogram Mug
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Courtesy by Williams Sonoma
Your partner will love any gift you choose, big or small. Keep things simple with a new cozy mug to match the modern theme. Order a gold monogram mug for your love, or grab two to make a beautiful new set for the kitchen. From coffee to tea, hot cocoa, and every hot drink in between, this is a gift your spouse can use again and again.
For Coffee Lovers
Atlas Coffee Club
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Atlas Coffee Club
Is your spouse a coffee lover? Treat them to something thoughtful and unique! This monthly coffee subscription will deliver a new blend from around the world so they can experience new flavors for their daily morning brew. All you have to do is choose whether it should arrive as whole bean or ground, depending on their coffee preferences.
Best Scent
Candlefolk Co Sea Salt Orchid Soy Candle
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Etsy
When in doubt, a candle never fails as a gift. Follow the flower theme for your 14th-anniversary and embrace the tropical, romantic scent of orchids. This hand-poured soy candle features subtle floral notes balanced with ocean sea salt, making a calming scent that’ll keep burning as your relationship continues to flourish.
Most Memorable
Miss Poppins and Me Paper Ivory Rose 14th Anniversary Gift
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Etsy
A pretty bouquet of flowers is great, but this ivory flower rose takes the romantic gesture to the next level. Perfectly on theme with the traditional 14th-anniversary gift, it's hand cut and assembled by hand, creating a beautiful representation of your love and a keepsake for your home. Pair it with a 14th-anniversary ivory custom vase.
Most Thoughtful
Custom Family Gifts Personalized Milestones Map
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Etsy
Celebrate every milestone the two of you have achieved in the past 14 years of marriage, including the incredible trips you’ve taken together. This personalized map allows you to customize a beautiful piece to showcase the locations of spots you’ve visited as a married couple, allowing the memories to live on forever.
Best Experience Gift
Providence Woven Picnic Basket
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Pottery Barn
Celebrate 14 years with a day in the park, but don’t forget to pack a picnic! This gorgeous set comes with everything you need, including plates, wine glasses, and utensils all bundled in a beautiful woven basket. All you’ll need to do is plan the menu.
Best Beauty Gift
Anatomy of a Fragrance Eau de Parfum
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Anthropologie
While ivory and gold are the typical themes for a 14th-anniversary, orchids are also noted as the themed flower. Celebrate with scent by gifting a beautiful bottle of Eau de parfum in Orchid Vanille—she'll think of you every time she wears it!
Best Jewelry Gift
Angara Opal Solitaire Necklace
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Angara
The traditional 14th-anniversary stone? Opal. And this bezel-set gold necklace captures it most beautifully. With 14K yellow gold, it’s elegant yet strong and durable to remain in tip-top shape for years to come. It's a gift your partner will cherish forever. Plus, they can pass it down to the next generation as a special heirloom.
For the Foodie
Jacobsen Salt Co. Infused Salt Set With Stand
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Williams Sonoma
Are you ready to take your at-home dinner dates up a notch? For the couple who loves to cook together, this is a gift that keeps giving. These beautifully packaged, Oregon coast-sourced salts will add some extra flair to your spice cabinet. With flavor infusions like Pinot Noir, Rosemary, and Black Garlic, you’ll be thrilled to whip up a new dish together.
For a Toast
Ferrari Brut Trento DOC
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Total Wine & More
Cheers to 14 years! Toast to this milestone with a glass (or two) of champagne! This bottle of Brut by Ferrari. Each sip delivers crystalline luminosity and brilliant taste with notes of citrus, white peach, and breakfast pastry for a drink that's worthy of such a momentous occasion.
Most Practical
World Market Marble And Gold Serving Tray
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World Market
Love hosting dinner parties together? Add a new piece to your serving collection while fitting the modern gold theme. This circular marble slab is wrapped in a gold frame for a beautiful way to display charcuterie, appetizers, desserts, and more.
Best Print
Yve Print Co Gold Foil Personalized Heart Map Print
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Etsy
What better way to show your love than by displaying it on your wall? This beautiful, personalized gold foil print features a map of the location of your choice—such as your wedding location, the city you met, where you had your first date, or where you now live together—in the shape of a heart to represent your love.
What to Look for in a 14th-Anniversary Gift
The traditional gift, ivory
While ivory is banned, it’s still seen as a precious symbol of patience, dignity, and stability, just like your marriage. “Fourteen years of marriage is a testament to patience and durability, adaptation and collaboration, and fidelity and integrity," says etiquette expert Julie Blais Comeau. She adds that you've gotten well past the "seven year itch" (double that time, in fact!) and that this anniversary is a testament to years respecting and honoring your vows.
In other words, the 14th anniversary is a momentous milestone that deserves a special gift. If you're sticking to the traditional ivory theme, we especially love the Ms Poppins and Me Paper Ivory Rose 14th Anniversary Gift or the Wulf Creek Designs Elephant Couple Wine Glasses.
The modern gift, gold
Just like your relationship after 14 years of marriage, gold is incredibly strong. It can withstand everyday wear, but it’s also flexible enough to mold into beautiful jewelry and other trinkets. Celebrating with jewelry or a piece for your home that’s decked in gold is both functional and symbolic—such as the Angara Bezel-Set Round Opal Solitaire Necklace.
Meet the Expert
Julie Blais Comeau is an etiquette expert and the author of several books. She has more than a decade of experience in the etiquette industry.
Why Trust Brides
Brides contributor Molly Allen is a former small business owner with years of experience in the lifestyle and wedding industries, with a focus on parties, entertaining, food, and beverage. She is dedicated to searching for high-quality, beautiful products that will bring a smile to any recipient’s face.
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