Cheers to five years! With half a decade down (and a lifetime to go), it’s certainly time to celebrate—and yes, that can definitely include a gift to mark this very special occasion. If you’re the type that likes to follow the yearly anniversary themes, a traditional fifth-anniversary gift is crafted from wood. "It represents strong roots in your relationship," explains NYC-based event planner and registry expert Jung Lee. The modern theme? Flatware or silverware, as well as sapphire jewelry. All three are a nice starting point from which to brainstorm ideas, but they’re by no means hard and fast rules.
“There are so many options for any type of wedding party or spouse related gifts that it can make your head spin,” says New Jersey based wedding and event planner Sarah Cunningham Mastriano. “A lot of the choices are quite literally things no one wants to own—a cutting board with someone else's wedding date and name on it from a wedding you were in 10 years ago? Just no.” She instead recommends thoughtful five-year anniversary gifts that have a bit of a functional element to them, too. Of course, what's heartfelt and practical to one person may not be to another, so you might want to take some time brainstorming what your partner uses in his or her everyday life to brainstorm the perfect wedding anniversary present.
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If you’re shopping for your spouse, functional gifts that you can both get good use out of (think upgraded bedding or a fancy new coffee maker) are always a guaranteed great choice. And the same goes if you’re on the hunt for a gift for a couple—something that they can utilize together is the way to go. That being said, as with any type of anniversary, you can’t go wrong with a gorgeous piece of jewelry or a personalized gift, such as an engraved cutting board or customized print for your home.
To help you find a gift that's just as special as your spouse, we've researched the best options available online. We scoured the web for items in the above categories—and then some. We narrowed down our top picks based on the quality of materials, thoughtfulness, customization options, and value.
Read on for the best 5th-year anniversary gifts.
Mark & Graham Wood and Marble Platter
Whether you're displaying a charcuterie spread or fancy cheeses, this serving offers the perfect place to showcase your favorite appetizers. Three mini bowls hold dips and sauces, while the combo of wood (a nod to the traditional fifth-year anniversary theme) and marble makes for a stunning finish. We also like that it can be monogrammed with your last name or initials.
Who It's For
If your partner is always creating picture-perfect charcuterie boards and inviting friends over, they'll love showing this beauty off at your next dinner party.
Pottery Barn Providence Woven Picnic Basket
An adorable option to give any couple, this comes complete with everything they’ll need for a Pinterest-worthy picnic. We’re talking plates, wine glasses, cutlery, and even a corkscrew. We especially love the design and overall style of the woven basket, which has a navy and white striped interior.
Who It's For
For the partner or couple who always wants to be outdoors, this fully stocked picnic basket is an ideal gift. From the beach to the park to your own backyard, it will be the center of many spring and summer date nights to come.
Do One Thing Every Day Journals
Five years can be just enough time that you start to feel like you’ve really gotten to know everything there is to know about one another. That’s where this journal comes in. It's filled with prompts to spark connection and communication. We also love how eye-catching the cover is, making it an exciting gift to open. And, of course, the under-$15 pricetag is a bonus.
Who It's For
Busy couples who are always on the go, this one is for you! If you're both swamped with work, kids, and various obligations, this sweet gift gives you both a chance to slow down and make a few minutes of your time dedicated to each other.
Price at time of publish: $13
Jeremiah and Kassy Reynolds Custom Bourbon Barrel Lazy Susan
Another choice wooden option, this piece is handcrafted from reclaimed white oak bourbon barrels. It can also be finished with names and/or dates of your choice—we recommend your wedding date! We love that it makes for both a pretty and practical gift, thanks to the oversized shape that can hold plenty of drinks and snacks.
Who It's For
Of course, this gift is made for those who love a good glass of whiskey. Pair this with a bottle of their favorite sprits to make it feel extra special.
Spinn Coffee Maker Pro
For people who are serious about their coffee game, this appliance is unparalleled. The all-in-one machine grinds whole beans immediately before brewing and can brew any drink—espresso, coffee, cold brew—within 60 seconds. It even syncs to an app so that you can get your coffee going even before you get out of bed in the morning.
Who It's For
Coffee connoisseurs will truly appreciate this modern and high-tech coffee maker, whether they're grabbing a cold brew before heading out the door or making a cozy cup of espresso on a Sunday morning.
Utility Objects Handmade Gigante Mug
Speaking of morning coffee, how fun would it be to have a matching set of mugs to sip from every morning? Each piece is handmade, featuring a unique brushstroke design, with an oversized handle that ensures it stands out among all the other mugs in your collection.
Who It's For
We love this for anyone who's always brewing a hot cup of coffee or tea (and it's especially ideal for couples who live in cold-weather destinations). This gift will help warm them up all winter long.
Parachute Waffle Robe
Even if a trip to a fancy spa or resort isn’t in the cards, slipping on this waffle weave robe will make you feel like you’re on vacation. The waffle weave texture is light yet absorbent, and the unisex style looks great on he, she, or them. AKA, make sure to grab one for both yourself and your spouse.
Who It's For
Self-care queens will adore this comfortable and stylish robe. They'll throw it on while they're getting ready for the day, doing their skincare routine, or just lounging and relaxing at home.
Samsung Galaxy Buds2 Pro
With a super snug fit, next-level noise cancellation, and 360-degree sound, these ear buds offer everything you could want in headphones—and then some. We also like that they come in three colors, so you can gift a pair that perfectly matches your partner's aesthetic.
Who It's For
There's no better gift for the music lover in your life than a high-quality pair of headphones—these extra-portable ones are especially great for people who commute or are always on the go.
Artsy Voiceprint Soundwave Wall Art
Unique and totally personal, this allows you to turn any bit of audio—like a voice message or a special song—into a work of art. The particular soundwaves you choose are printed onto birchwood and you can even add personalized text.
Who It's For
This is another great option for music lovers, while also following the traditional fifth-anniversary theme of wood. Choose their favorite song, the song you danced to at your wedding, or create a voice note that tells them how much they mean to you.
Four Seasons Down Alternative Pillow
Put an end to the nightly ‘you have the good pillow!’ fight by picking up a set of these. It truly will make you feel like you’re sleeping at a five-star resort, with a down-alternative filling that makes for the perfect balance of support and softness.
Who It's For
This is the perfect gift option for the homebody who prefers to spend their weekends and evenings with a cozy blanket (and now pillows) and a good movie.
Mejuri Floating Sapphire Necklace
A great way to honor the modern theme of sapphire jewelry, this necklace has sapphire stones set on either a gold or silver strand. It’s delicate and dainty, which is great for both everyday wear and more special occasions.
Who It's For
This piece is a great gift for both fashionistas and for those who appreciate classic and subtle jewelry accents.
St. Elmo Steak House NY Strip & Shrimp Cocktail Dinner for Two
Who says you need to have an anniversary dinner out? If you prefer to stay in, order this kit. It will transport you to a fancy steakhouse, thanks to the two steaks, shrimp cocktail, and all the accompanying sauces and seasonings. Just don’t forget to light some candles and crack open a good bottle of red.
Who It's For
If you're looking for a gift for the foodie in your life, this is it! In addition to the delicious meal, you'll also get a fun new recipe and activity to do together.
Artifact Uprising Wedding Layflat Photo Album
A compilation of photos makes for a beautiful and meaningful gift, no matter the occasion. Fill this album with wedding photos or add images that capture your first five years of marriage. Either way, the high-quality and cloth-wrapped hardcover make this a book that will be worthy of displaying for years to come.
Who It's For
This one is for person who's always breaking out their camera and snapping photos while visiting a new destination together or celebrating a special occasion at home.
New West KnifeWorks Chef’s Knife
This chef-grade knife is made from the high-quality steel, has an easy-to-grip handle, and comes in a beautiful array of unique colors. The brand offers a lifetime warranty as well as free sharpening, and, per the anniversary part of things, you can also have it laser engraved with the name or date of your choosing.
Who It's For
Any avid home cook will love getting a new, high-quality knife, especially when it’s this gorgeous chef-approved tool.
Muujee Weddings Wood Keepsake Storage Box
Not only can this wooden box be personalized for an extra special touch, but it’s also super practical. The roomy size makes it the perfect place to store wedding memorabilia, or even act as a kind of time capsule or relationship scrapbook. It's something your partner will cherish for many more years of marriage to come.
Who It's For
This thoughtful, high-quality, and engraved keepsake box is a top choice for anyone who’s sentimental and loves to hang onto special mementos.
Lynn & Liana Cheese Board
Unlike any cheese board we’ve ever seen, this stunner combines acacia wood with an epoxy finish that adds an artistic touch. It’s pretty enough to hang as a piece of artwork on your kitchen or dining room wall.
Who It's For
For the partner who's always breaking out a bottle of wine and a charcuterie board, this stylish and high-quality gift can do no wrong. They'll be sure to get a ton of use out of it, too!
Arquiste Parfumeur Indigo Smoke Eau De Parfum
Looking for a gift that pays homage to the traditional wood theme but in a more subtle way? Consider a woody fragrance, like this one. Notes of Guaiac wood, pine tar, and incense are combined with zesty mandarin and orange, making for an intoxicating unisex blend.
Who It's For
This gift is for the one who's always trying new scents, whether it's a cologne or a candle. This alluring, woody blend works for both men and women.
Ring Bear Beveled Wood Tungsten Men's Ring
Upgrade their wedding band—or just pick up another ring for them. This one features either an African mahogany or African zebra wood inlay, surrounded by recycled metal. It's an unique, eye-catching combination that will stand out from other jewelry pieces in their collection.
Who It's For
This gift is perfectly on-brand for the fashion-forward person who's always accessorizing, as well as for sentimental folks who appreciate the nod to the wood anniversary theme.
Novella Sneakers
A pair of souped-up sneakers may not necessarily be an expected anniversary gift, but it’s certainly one that will be appreciated. White nylon is accented with oiled leather and copper lace holes in this pair of cool, unisex kicks that work with a variety of styles and looks.
Who It's For
Sneakerheads will go crazy for this elevated, versatile, and downright cool pair of shoes.
Maison Noir Wines Love Drunk
A nice anniversary gift doesn’t have to be fancy or elaborate. Exhibit A: This lovely bottle of fresh and fruity rosé (with a very apropos name). Pair it with a thoughtful handwritten card and you’re good to go.
Who It's For
For the one who is always sipping their favorite summer wines, even in the winter, this gift will be right up their alley. Pair it with a fresh new set of wine glasses to take it up a notch.
Kinn Link Chain Necklace
A link-style chain and open oval diamond pendant give this plenty of visual interest. We also appreciate that it’s made with 14-karat and recycled gold, and features only ethically-sourced diamonds.
Who It's For
They say diamonds are a girl's best friend, and this necklace proves why. We love the idea of giving this to someone who appreciates vintage clothing and style, thanks to its art deco-inspired design.
Linoto Linen Sheet Set
Even if you got new bedding as a wedding gift, you’re now five years in—AKA, due for a refresh and an upgrade. This high-quality set is handcrafted from a mix of both Belgian and Italian linen that keeps you warm in the winter and cool in the summer. Bonus points for the fact that there are over 25 colors to choose from.
Who It's For
This gift is ideal for the person who...isn't necessarily a morning person. If your partner loves to sleep in, they're sure to appreciate this cozy new bedding set.
Solo Stove Pi Pizza Oven
Pizza date night just got a whole new meaning. This outdoor pizza oven, which can be powered by either propane or wood-fired, is a fun addition to your backyard set-up. It offers up the opportunity to whip up delicious homemade pizzas together, whenever you feel like it.
Who It's For
Another great option for the avid foodie or home chef, this pizza oven will satisfy their tastebuds—and yours!
Enjoy the Wood World Map Travel Wall Art
A perfect pick for any couple that loves to travel, this wooden wall art is laser engraved to create a world map that’s will definitely be a conversation starter. The included push pins let you mark off where you’ve been and/or want to go. It's a sentimental way to celebrate the travels you’ve already experienced together and the many adventures that are still to come.
Who It's For
Of course, this gift is great for the couple who loves to travel. Any world traveler will admire this thoughtful and eye-catching art piece, and it's sure to inspire your next adventure.
Casper Snow Mattress
Yes, you both deserve a new mattress, and yes, this is the time to get one. Make it this newly-launched option, which has a variety of different features to help keep you cool while you snooze—HeatDelete bands, phase change material, and a Cool Touch cover—as well as both coils and form that give this a comfortable yet supportive feel.
Who It's For
This is a worthy gift for just about anyone, but it's especially great for the couple who just moved to a new home. It will be the finishing touch on creating a cozy bedroom space.
EnvivaCor Leather Backpack
This leather backpack can do it all. It’s roomy enough for a laptop, though works equally well as a gym backpack, a travel bag, a work tote, you name it. The treated leather ages beautifully, and we also appreciate that it’s from a small, BIPOC-owned brand.
Who It's For
This is an excellent gift if your partner is always on the go and needs to bring extra belongings with them. Not only is this made of high-quality materials and offer plenty of room for the essentials, but it's also stylish and pairs well with just about any outfit.
Kathy Kuo Home Wood Bookends
These bookends, made of petrified wood, are a nice take on the traditional wood theme. They are incredibly beautiful and add a nice design piece any room in your home. Plus, there are five different color finishes to choose from, so you can find an option that suits your home aesthetic.
Who It's For
Is your partner a total book worm or do they host a monthly book club? The'll be thrilled to add this chic design piece to their bookshelf or home library.
Diamond Nexus Wedding Band
We think that five years calls for another band to add to your bridal ring stack, don’t you? This one features scalloped pavé stones set halfway around the band. The option that's made with the brand’s synthetic diamond alternative allows for a price rings in at less than $1000. (Though even if you look closely you’ll be hard-pressed to see any difference between these and the real thing.)
Who it's for:
Anyone who loves the look of diamonds and wants to add some bling to their ring stack.
Air & Anchor Chestnut Serving Board
Use this as a serving board, cheese tray, or in lieu of a butcher block—either way, you’re sure to get plenty of use out of this beautiful board. And it’s not made from just any old wood; it’s handcrafted from reclaimed, 100-year-old chestnut.
Who It's For
This one is for the person who always seems to be cooking, prepping, or decorating in the kitchen. They'll be sure to use it for all of their food, charcuterie, and home design needs.
Villa Cement Fire Bowl
Create some outdoor ambiance with this sleek and contemporary fire pit. It’s the perfect spot to cozy up next to one another, share a glass of wine, and reconnect. (Don’t forget the smores.) We especially love the modern industrial look of this pit that's sure to elevate your outdoor space.
Who It's For
Did you recently upgrade to a new home with a big backyard? This beautiful fire pit will bring the whole space together, and give your family and friends a place to gather and spend time together.
Lenox Personalized Adorn Cake Knife & Server Set
Pay homage to the more modern fifth-year anniversary gifting theme of silverware with this silver cake serving set. It can be personalized with names and/or dates, adding a special touch. You’ll get extra points if you pair it with a yummy cake to enjoy on the night of your anniversary.
Who It's For
This sentimental server is a thoughtful gift for anyone who loves to bake (or eat!) desserts.
Cozy Earth Linen Bamboo Box Quilt
A combo of bamboo viscose and French linen gives this blanket the perfect mix of coziness and visually appealing texture. A simple and easy way to dress up your bedding, it comes in three sizes and four neutral hues.
Who It's For
Another ideal gift for the homebody or the self-proclaimed interior designer—this bedding not only creates a cozy bed to jump into each night, but it also elevates your bedroom with a simple yet chic design.
VRAI Linked Tennis Earring
These may be pricey, but if you’re looking for an extra special jewelry piece for your wife, this is it. (And five years definitely calls for something extra special.) Four graduated, round, brilliant diamonds are linked together, making for a show-stopping setting she'll wear again and again.
Who It's For
For the trendy gal who is always keeping up with the latest fashion trends, these earrings will make her excited to style a new outfit.
Boska Fondue Party Set
Is there any meal more romantic than fondue? We think not. This set has everything you need to have a cozy fondue night with either cheese or chocolate, made of cast iron, oak, and stainless steel.
Who It's For
You can never have too many delicious meals to indulge in, right? We love the idea of making a date night centered around this high-quality fondue set—start with a pot of cheesy goodness, then finish with chocolatey treats.
Peloton Tread Basics
If one or both of you are avid at-home exercisers, this is hands down a splurge-worthy way to mark five years. Consider it your anniversary gift to one another; the high-tech treadmill offers plenty of running room and cutting-edge features, but with a small footprint that takes up minimal space.
Who It's For
Of course, this gift is made for the ultimate #FitCouple. It's the perfect cardio addition to your home gym!
EF Collection Evil Eye Diamond & Sapphire Stack Ring
Diamonds and sapphires? Yes, please. This ring has both, set in an evil eye design on a 14-karat yellow gold band. The unique design is noteworthy when worn on its own, but it is also dainty enough to stack with other pieces.
Who It's For
This unique ring design is perfect for the bold fashionista who isn't afraid to experiment with their style or stand out from the crowd.
Barbour Wax Jacket
There’s arguably no piece of outerwear more classic than this waxed jacket. The relaxed fit looks great with more rugged looks, though it can easily be worn over more formal wear. It features a 100% cotton lining with an interactive zip designed for pairing with a liner for additional warmth.
Who it's for:
This jacket is a great choice for anyone who appreciates heritage brands, quality and classic design.
Sonos Playbar
File this under one of those gifts that you’ll both be able to enjoy. The mountable sound bar is ideal for amping up (pun intended) your TV or movie sound, or simply streaming music from your phone. Either way, it’s a sleek-looking and very powerful speaker.
Who It's For
Movie buffs will be thrilled to unwrap this gift that will instantly elevate your at-home viewing experience. So, grab the popcorn and get ready for a movie date night on the couch!
Auvere Initial Bracelet
Use your initial, hers, or your kid’s—either way, she’s sure to love this simple yet meaningful bracelet. It comes in two sizes, both of which are adjustable, and is made of extremely high-quality 22-karat gold.
Who It's For
This personalized gift is perfect for a partner who will appreciate a thoughtful and sentimental gesture.
George the Jeweler Diamond Number in 14K Gold
With celebrity clients that include A-listers like Megan Fox and Hailey Beiber, George the Jeweler creates pieces for some of Hollywood's most elite. This gold and diamond ‘5’ pendant necklace is a beautiful way to, quite literally, commemorate your five years together.
Who It's For
The person who appreciates the finer things in life will definitely swoon over this sparkling diamond pendant. They'll be excited to wear this around their neck every day until the next anniversary.
Berlinger Baguette Diamond Mosaic Pendant
This is a fun twist on the traditional diamond necklace. Three baguette diamonds are stacked next to one another, giving the illusion of one larger one when you look from far away. They're strung together with your choice of a 14-karat yellow gold, 14-karat white gold, or a rose gold chain.
Who It's For
Baguette diamonds are perfect for someone who appreciates classic tastes, but is looking for something that still feels unique and modern.
Crate & Barrel Silver Metallic Flatware Set
Five years past the registry, it may be time for a flatware upgrade. Replace all of the mismatched spoons, forks, and knives with this cohesive set which comes with four, five-piece settings. With smooth contours and rounded handles, the design is simple yet elegant. Best of all, everything is dishwasher-safe.
Who It's For
This is another great gift for the couple who recently moved into a new home—there is no better time to upgrade your kitchen essentials.
Bloomscape Money Tree Braid
Yes, flowers are a lovely gift—but they definitely have a finite lifespan. Enter this money tree as a nice alternative. This is an option that not only requires minimal care and is incredibly hearty, but is also meant to bring positive energy and good luck to whoever owns it. Can your basic bouquet do that?
Who It's For
Does your spouse have a green thumb? Any plant-loving person will be thrilled to receive this thoughtful gift.
Personal Creations Wooden Beverage Cooler
If you’re the couple that’s always hosting the summer barbecues, this one is a must. Wood theme? Check. Ability to personalize? Check. Plenty of space to keep all your go-to beverages nice and cool? Check.
Who It's For
How adorable is this backyard bar cooler? The avid party throwers and home hosts will adore this piece, and it's sure to garner tons of compliments next time you have friends and family over for a few brews!
What to Look for in a 5th Anniversary Gift
- The traditional gift, wood: If you're looking to follow tradition, go with something that highlights the wood theme. It can be an items that's useful (think a charging station or a charcuterie board) or something entirely sentimental like a unique piece of art for your home.
- The modern gift, silverware: After five years of marriage, it may very well be time to upgrade your flatware collection. t's also a great opportunity to splurge on something you've been eyeing for a while. Whether it's for everyday or for special occasions, new silverware is a practical present that you can enjoy together.
- Personalization: Custom gifts always feel more special—your partner will know that you went the extra mile to have something created that's just for them.
Why Trust Brides
Brides contributor Melanie Rud has nearly 15 years of journalism experience covering the beauty and lifestyle space for some of the biggest magazines and websites out there. She’s written countless gift guides across a wide array of topics and categories. She also prides herself on being an excellent gift-giver. For this article, she spent hours researching the best fifth year gift options and narrowed them down based on the themes, materials, cost, and overall quality. She also spoke with an industry expert for their insight:
- Jung Lee is a sought-after celebrity event designer and registry expert based in New York City.
- Sarah Cunningham Mastriano is the founder of A Lovely Universe, a New Jersey-based event planning service.