Hematite Rings: The Complete Guide

If you’re looking for a unique engagement ring with a rich history dating back centuries, hematite may be your answer. The shimmery metallic black-silver stone is multifaceted and suits a variety of styles, whether you’re looking for something sophisticated and elegant, edgy and unexpected, or romantic and mystical.

“One of the things that makes it special and draws people to it is its metallic luster,” says jeweler Sharon Schatner. While hematite may be fragile, it’s been thought to convey strength and power to its wearer, making it a perfect option for any bride who’s ready for this exciting new stage of life.

Discover the history and spiritual meaning of hematite, what makes it unique, and why it may be the perfect stone for your engagement ring or wedding band. 

History of Hematite Rings

Hematite means “blood stone” because of its reddish-brown pigment, and that pigment dates as far back as the Stone Ages when cavemen used it to write and make cave paintings. Hematite has long been thought to have spiritual properties, too. It’s popular in feng shui for providing grounding and calming energy and the stone has also been used to promote balance and to protect its wearer, as well as to offer healing energy and strength. The ancient Egyptians used hematite to embellish the tombs of their rulers, while the Babylonians carried it into battle. The ancient Romans used it both as jewelry and to decorate their armor.

As a gemstone, hematite has been carved into beads, turned into cameos, and used in mourning jewelry, especially in the Victorian era. It’s a popular stone for men’s jewelry, especially in mid-century pieces. The stone has not traditionally been popular in engagement and wedding jewelry, but hematite gives a similar look to black diamonds at a more affordable price point.

Pros and Cons of Hematite Rings

Hematite is a great choice for anyone looking for an affordable, yet statement-making stone. The mineral is plentiful, making hematite stones relatively inexpensive and budget-friendly. Hematite can also be made into wedding bands if your partner is also a fan of the stone, or if you’d like to add unexpected edge and drama to your wedding set.

However, hematite is quite fragile and should be given the utmost care. If you live an active lifestyle or tend to be hard on your jewelry, it may not be the right stone for you. “It’s too soft for most people to wear every day without scratching or abrading the stone in a short period of time,” Schatner says. “I would suggest a hematite ring for someone who can be careful with their jewelry and doesn't intend to wear it while working if they have a physical, active job.” 

What to Look for in a Hematite Ring

• What settings and metals look best with hematite? “Some love hematite with white metals since it matches the cool black and silver luster of the stone. I would suggest wearing it in a bezel setting or having the stone set flush with the metal to protect it,” advises Schatner. “I would advise against prongs. You usually see them as cabochons or with very little faceting.”
• Where should I look for a hematite ring? Hematite rings can be found everywhere from Etsy to antique jewelers. “There are definitely vintage hematite rings to be found, but historically the stone was used mostly in men’s rings like carved intaglios,” explains Schatner. Where you find your ring depends on your style; if you go for a modern vibe, you’ll find simple settings often in sterling silver to complement the metallic sheen of hematite. If you gravitate towards a more romantic look, you may want to try a stone surrounded by diamonds for a nod to tradition. It’s all up to you! 
• How much should a hematite ring cost? “When looking for a hematite piece, don't invest too much because it shouldn't be expensive and you may have to replace the stone over time because it's so soft,” Schatner says. “It is a five to six-and-a-half on the hardness scale so it is softer than most of the gemstones you're used to seeing people wear for wedding rings. For example, diamonds are a 10, sapphires and rubies are nine, and emeralds and aquas are an eight.”

• Are there any stones that give a similar look? If you love the look of hematite but are looking for a more durable stone, Schatner recommends black spinel or black diamonds, which have a higher score on the hardness scale and may better fit your lifestyle.

How to Care for a Hematite Ring

Because of hematite’s fragility, Schatner advises being extremely careful with your jewelry. She recommends taking your ring off during any activity that could impact the ring, including cooking, cleaning, exercising, or moving heavy objects. Hematite should be washed with mild soap and kept away from ammonia and ultrasonic cleaning machines.

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