Ceremony and reception entrances are some of the most highly-anticipated parts of the wedding day, so it's easy to see why couples put a lot of thought into these moments and forget to think about their exits. Yes, you'll want to nail those entrances, but your exit can—and should—be just as exciting. That's where the wedding send-off comes into play. In this fun and interactive tradition that takes place during or after the recessional or at the very end of the night, friends and family usually arrange a receiving line and then “send off” the couple with a celebratory item; popular options include tossing flower petals, waving sparklers, blowing bubbles, and ringing bells, but you can go with any creative idea you dream up. Whatever you choose, the end result is a photo-worthy moment that leaves a lasting impression, and it’s relatively easy to execute.
According to wedding planner Heather Balliet of Amorology, you can customize the send-off in any way that suits your personality. "We once did a lighter send-off for a rock-and-roll musician couple—such a fun and personal way to end the night,” Balliet recalls. The planner mentions that another one of her clients asked her loved ones to toss oats as they left for the night since the couple loved oatmeal and used it in their décor. You can also get creative with the location. While most send-offs occur outside of the ceremony or reception venue, Balliet has planned nuptials where guests shower the couple on the dance floor. "We have seen a lot of our couples combine both their last dance with their send-off and have everyone gather together on the dance floor as the night comes to an end,” she explains.
Meet the Expert
Heather Balliet is the lead planner, owner, and designer of Amorology, a full-service wedding planning company based in San Diego. She has 19 years of experience planning and styling weddings.
From streamers and balloons to glow sticks and bubbles, here are some of our favorite wedding send-off ideas.
Toss Flower Petals
The flower petal toss isn’t just reserved for the flower girls at the start of the ceremony. Having your guests throw petals after you’ve recited your vows and shared your first kiss is also a fun and festive way to send you off to the reception. Select hues that coordinate with your aisle arrangements, and stick with seasonal varieties for a cohesive look.
Launch Confetti
Setting off a canon of confetti at the end of the night will create an explosion of color and texture, leading to incredible photos. Bring your wedding send-off to your dance floor, so friends and family can celebrate your new marriage while breaking it down to a killer soundtrack. We love silver and gold confetti for glamorous and contemporary nuptials, like this couple selected for their lavish Florida wedding.
Integrate Streamer Cannons
Once it’s time to leave your reception venue, walking through a throng of streamers launched through cannons will make for a thrilling and touching conclusion. While tinsel streamers are always a classic choice, you can also opt for vibrant hues that coordinate with your wedding color scheme.
Throw Glitter
Another memorable way to end your special day is by walking through a sea of glitter. Remember to buy large-size glitter instead of normal-size glitter, so the sparkly decoration will show up better in photos and create an easier cleanup process. If you choose glitter for your send-off idea, just be prepared that it will most likely stick to your hair and skin, especially if you’re sweaty from a night of dancing.
Blow Bubbles
For a unique alternative that doesn’t require any cleanup, consider bubbles. Not only will bubbles create less mess, but they’ll also double as favors. And they aren’t just for daytime celebrations: With enough ambient lighting, a bubble fest will be just as visible in the dark, and you can even opt for a glow-in-the-dark variety. If you really want to up the ante, employ a bubble machine.
Set Off Smoke Bombs
Equip your guests with handheld smoke bombs (or have a professional release them on cue) and dash through clouds of color, from delicate wisps of smoke to a full-blown backdrop. You can even time it just right, so your getaway car drives through the mystical haze. If you’re considering this type of send-off idea, check with your venue first and let your photographer know of your intent. Also, keep in mind that the pigment may stain your clothing and any other surrounding items, so make sure to use them in outdoor settings only.
Include a Second Line
A second line parade is a longstanding New Orleans wedding tradition that has the newlyweds, bridal party, and wedding guests take to the streets in a celebratory fashion. The procession is often accompanied by a brass band and led by a grand marshall. Traditionally, the newlyweds lead the group with parasols or umbrellas. If you’re a music-loving couple or throwing your nuptials down south, a second line will make your walk from the ceremony site to the reception a lively one.
Hold Sparklers
Waving sparklers is one of the most classic wedding send-offs.These dazzling flames will add a glamorous edge to a casual affair or add a sense of whimsy to a formal celebration. To make them pop, hold them up against the night sky or coordinate with the bright lights of a city backdrop, which is what this couple did at their Brooklyn wedding. Present extra sparkler sticks in custom wrappers with your name or monogram for an easy wedding favor idea.
Wave Ribbon Wands
Giving your guests ribbon wands to wiggle back and forth as you make your grand exit will bring a rustic and whimsical flair to your wedding. Ribbon wands are reminiscent of streamers, but they won’t leave any litter on the floor. Bonus: Making these colorful wands can be an easy DIY project. Just pick out your favorite ribbon combination and tie them to dowels for a dynamic and photogenic setup.
Customize Flags
Flags and pennants are the perfect way to personalize your send-off and instill a sense of patriotism. For some ideas, select simple flags in your wedding colors, engrave them with your custom monogram, or choose ones that support your favorite sports team or alma mater.
Shower With Rice
Since Roman times, many couples have included a rice toss at their wedding. This traditional practice is also filled with symbolic meaning: Showering the newlyweds with grains of rice is said to bring fertility and prosperity to a couple’s marriage. Not to mention, this send-off idea is budget-friendly and will give a cinematic feel to your wedding photos. A word of caution: Rice may cause people to slip and fall when stepped on, so exercise caution if this send-off occurs on pavement, wood, or tile.
Scatter Birdseed
Birdseed tosses have gained tremendous popularity in recent years, due in part to the fact that it's believed that rice is dangerous to birds (as it turns out, that's not quite true). Regardless, birdseed is sustainable, eco-friendly, and affordable, so it’s still a worthwhile alternative. Just be sure to orchestrate the send-off during the day, so the birds can actually assist with the cleanup.
Salute With Swords
Known as the Arch of Sabers or the Arch of Swords, this send-off is a widely-known tradition that takes place at military weddings to honor and protect the newlyweds. Immediately after the ceremony—usually outside of the venue—several service members line up in pairs and create a tunnel of swords that the couple then walks under. Once the bride and groom reach the last two swords, the team members drop their sabers, and the duo must kiss in order to pass through.
Incorporate Glow Sticks
If your wedding venue won’t allow a sparkler send-off, opt for glow sticks instead. Illuminating the night with colorful spheres of light will cast a similar glow over your evening, but it will last longer than a few minutes. Glow sticks work especially well as you transition from the reception to the after-party.
Put on a Fire Performance
Turn your send-off into a performance and hire talent to put on a fire show at the end of your wedding. This couple even enlisted belly dancers, aeralists, and sword swallowers at their beach nuptials in Mexico. To avoid a safety hazard, make sure this production takes place outside, and get permission from your venue first.
Sprinkle Eucalyptus
Instead of using flower petals, a similarly lush alternative is scattering eucalyptus leaves. These fragrant greens will match the vibe of a rustic aesthetic or complement the botanical setting of a garden affair. Consider sourcing local finds that are native to the region to save money and give your ceremony a sustainable flair.
Create a Rainbow
While metallic confetti will douse your big day in glitz and glamour—like we previously mentioned—a colorful confetti toss will give your nuptials an air of vibrancy and playfulness. Provide your guests with confetti poppers to launch during your recessional, so you kick off your first few moments as a newly married couple in a striking way. Colorful confetti will suit weddings with a technicolor palette or a carnival theme, like this wedding in Virginia complete with a ferris wheel.
Spread Dried Florals
If you’re looking for a sustainable alternative to the classic flower petal toss, swap real petals for dried florals. Dried flowers are natural and biodegradable, so you’ll cut back on the overall waste produced on your wedding day.
Release Butterflies
Setting butterflies free after you’ve tied the knot signifies new beginnings and happiness, which is the best way to start your marriage. The butterflies will flutter around the two of you before flying free, creating a memory you’ll never forget. “These are always so pretty, and it’s a sweet way for guests to let them go with good wishes for the newlyweds,” Balliet says. Just make sure to find a butterfly release company that protects the safety of the butterflies.
Unleash Doves
Releasing doves after your ceremony is another symbolic way to celebrate your marriage. Sending doves off into the sky exemplifies good fortune, prosperity, a peaceful home, and everlasting love. As with butterflies, make sure the safety of the doves comes first.
Select Whole Flowers
To put a twist on the classic petal toss, have your guests throw entire flowers—with or without the stems—as you and your spouse walk back up the aisle. Roses are always a timeless choice, but you can also select daisies, lilies, baby’s breath, or any other in-season bloom.
Fly Paper Airplanes
Imagine paper airplanes soaring above you as you and your significant other take off for your honeymoon. Make yours out of origami or craft paper in shades that complement your color palette for an out-of-the-box wedding send-off idea.
Pitch Balloons
As the two of you make your way to your reception, walking through a mass of balloons is a fun, carefree, and playful way to start this next chapter of your life together. Have your guests toss them toward you and your spouse as you dodge them or return the volleys. If your ceremony is outdoors, you can even incorporate a balloon release.
Set Sail
For coastal settings, a wedding send-off by boat will give you and your partner a chance to soak up the first few moments as newlyweds alone and admire the scenery. At this modern wedding in Montenegro, a boat not only sent off the newlyweds, but it also delivered their guests to the cocktail hour. Choose a vessel that matches your wedding style, from a homegrown, rustic boat to a luxurious yacht.
Travel by Vehicle
Since not every couple has access to a vast body of water to make their exit, a more common send-off idea is by car. Leaving your wedding venue in a getaway car while your friends and family cheer you on also provides plenty of opportunities for decorations. You can’t go wrong with a “just married” sign and a trail of tin cans, but flowers and custom banners will also enhance your setup.
Fling Leaves
Are you saying “I do” in the fall? For an on-theme send-off idea, have your loved ones throw colorful foliage from their ceremony seats. You can even go the DIY route and accumulate fresh leaves from the ground (just make sure they aren’t damp or wet). Consider adding glitter for a sparkly finish.
Plan an Air Show
Whether you have an affinity for aircrafts, want to pay tribute to the military, or are looking for an adrenaline-packed exit, wrapping up your ceremony, led by a squad of aerobatic aircrafts, will be unforgettable. We suggest planning this exit during the daytime with clear skies and unobstructed views of the sky.
Disperse Sequins
Sequins will make a sparkly exit at any affair. Plan this toss during ceremonies with plenty of sunlight or light fixtures, so the objects will refract light and create more shine. To make your cleanup stress-free, include this sequin toss at a venue with hard flooring, like pavement or wood, rather than grass or sand.
Light Lanterns
For receptions that end after dusk, have your guests release lanterns while you bid adieu. Make a wish before you send them off, and watch yours ascend toward the heavens. Since open flames can start fires, make sure to use battery-operated lights.
Pop Open the Bubbly
There’s nothing more celebratory than Champagne on your wedding day. In addition to sipping on this beverage during your cocktail hour or reception, enlist a few of your wedding party members to pop open a bottle and spray you and your partner as you pass through your ceremony doors. Just be forewarned that this wedding send-off idea could create a sticky mess, and flying corks may cause a safety hazard for nearby witnesses.
Diffuse Lavender
Looking for a unique flower to throw? Consider lavender. “Not only is the color stunning, but bunches of lavender also smell amazing and create such a romantic feel,” Balliet says. A lavender toss will look especially beautiful at a spring or summer wedding in a garden, but it will add a provincial French flair at any type of event.
Add Choreography
Being escorted by a group of professional dancers will make your send-off one for the books. Luckily, you don’t have to memorize the choreography to partake. With this parade, you’ll get front-row access to your own intimate performance, and you can dance along as you please while the rest of your guests trail behind you.
Grab Cotton Candy
For a sweet and nostalgic wedding send-off idea, use cotton candy as your prop. Holding these fluffy spheres of sugar will bring color, texture, and a youthful enthusiasm to your exit. Not to mention, your guests will be able to savor these treats after they’ve sent you on your way.
End the Night With a Bang
Lighting up the skies with an eye-catching display of fireworks is a magnificent way to conclude the festivities before you jet off to your honeymoon. Just remember to ask your venue for permission first.
Install Cold Sparkler Machines
If fireworks aren’t in the budget, cold sparkler machines produce the same striking effect. You can either line the pathway outside of your reception venue with these ground installations or use them to border the driveway, so you can watch the sparks of light as you drive off.